Королева улья, или Как выжить в Мире девочек Вайсман Розалинд

Вот пример эффективного сотрудничества матери и психолога. В итоге девочка, даже недавно пережившая насилие, получит необходимую ей помощь.

Моя мама обзвонила троих специалистов и предложила мне любого на выбор. Она сказала, что я не обязана говорить обо всем, если не хочу, но она не может пребывать в бездействии и должна сделать хоть что-то, чтобы мне помочь. Психотерапевт не стала заставлять меня говорить о чем-то конкретном, я рассказала ей про своих друзей и интересы. До этого все взрослые пытались вытянуть из меня все о случившемся [насилие], но она дождалась, пока я сама не решилась поднять этот вопрос.

Алекса, 16 лет

Если вашему ребенку нужен терапевт, это не значит, что вы не справились с ролью мамы. Вы ей помогаете, делаете все, что в ваших силах, и это то, что нужно.

На прощание

Теперь вы знаете, что такое Мир девочек. Я знаю, порой нелегко читать то, что я описывала, о, надеюсь, я подсказала вам, как не только сделать подростковые годы вашей дочери более терпимыми для всех вас, но и воспитать в ней уверенность и независимость.

На прощание привожу послания девочек для их родителей.

Не пытайтесь понять каждую мысль своей дочери, дайте ей ощутить, что ее чувства важны и правильны. Когда нужно выслушать, выслушайте. Когда нужно сказать, скажите. И, что самое важное, относитесь к ней с уважением, как вы хотели бы, чтобы она относилась к вам, даже если она этого и не делает. В конце концов, это, возможно, самое трудное время в ее жизни. И не важно, что она говорит, вы ей очень нужны.

Джули, 17 лет

Общение – самое важное, что только может служить на благо отношений с дочерью. Подросткам приятно знать, что их родителям важно, что происходит в их жизни. Самое главное, что нужно помнить, – никогда нельзя давить, заставлять говорить, если они не готовы к этому. Всегда поддерживайте связь с ребенком и наблюдайте, тогда вы сразу поймете, что его что-то беспокоит. Проявление вашей любви и беспокойства может сотворить чудеса с самооценкой подростка.

Ниа, 18 лет

Просто будьте рядом. Не судите. Не говорите мне, что надо делать. Просто скажите, что любите.

Диа, 15 лет

Знайте, я вас люблю и хочу, чтобы вы мной гордились.

Мишель, 15 лет

Даже когда я с вами ругаюсь, я иногда понимаю, что вы правы, просто не хочу это признавать.

Киа, 16 лет

Вы на самом деле важны для меня, и я на самом деле прислушиваюсь.

Сара, 16 лет

Благодарности

Когда люди доверяют тебе здоровье и благополучие своих детей, это большая честь и ответственность. Я очень надеюсь, что это издание книги окажется еще полезнее предыдущего. Я постаралась рассмотреть самые распространенные вопросы, которые задавали мне девочки и их родители.

Эта книга, безусловно, – результат общих усилий как моих учеников, поделившихся со мной опытом и подсказавших, где, по их мнению, я не права, так и их родителей и преподавателей. Без их откликов и участия я никогда бы не справилась. Я бесконечно благодарна вам, если вы читали первое издание книги и рекомендовали его своим знакомым. Для автора это всегда самая важная оценка его трудов. Отдельно хочу выразить свою благодарность Ассоциации американского образовательного совета [12] и работникам образования, которые тоже поделились со мной примерами, с которыми столкнулись по работе. Вашу бесценную помощь нечасто награждают похвалой.

Завершив написание данного издания, я хотела бы сказать огромное спасибо:

• своей «домашней» редакторской команде в лице Кэндэйс Наззо и Эмили Бартек, без вас я не смогла бы выполнить и десятой доли того, что я сделала;

• Зоэ Уайсмэн, которой всегда будет посвящена эта книга, вне зависимости от того, сколько ей исполнится лет и какой она станет женщиной;

• Стэйси Барни, за то, что ты делаешь все, что можешь, и даже больше, хотя это не твоя работа;

• спасибо моим интернам Саре Шейя, Уэс Граф и Трине Брэди, и особая благодарность Кэйтилин Хэлдорсон и Алекс Шуйлер. Ваше честное мнение было для меня бесценно и помогло сделать материал полезным для молодого поколения;

• Филипу Патрику, благодаря тебе книга окончена;

• Синди Берман, ты спасла меня в последнюю минуту.

Мне очень помогли многие: Джулия Тэйлор, Мисси Нарлин и Мелинда Капалин стали для меня замечательными посланниками, наладившими связь между книгой и фокус-группами. Напоследок выражаю свою признательность школам и всем-всем ребятам и работникам, поучаствовавшим в лекциях и опросах, хоть я и пообещала не включать в книгу их имен. Спасибо, что открыли мне души. И самое большое спасибо хочу сказать своему мужу Джеймсу за то, что он радел за нашу семью, пока я в течение восемнадцати месяцев работала над тремя книгами. Я обещаю больше никогда так не делать.

Об авторе

Розалинда Вайсман – всемирно признанный автор и наставник детей, подростков и их родителей, специалист в области школьной травли, социальной несправедливости и этического превосходства.

Более подробную информацию вы найдете на сайте www.rosalindwiseman.com.

Полезные источники

Культурные аспекты

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Издевательства, социальная справедливость и стратегия вмешательства

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Аудиовизуальные материалы

How to Eat Fried Worms. Bob Dolman (Director). Walden Media, 2006. (www.walden.com)

Интернет-ресурсы

Историческая справка: www.facinghistory.org. Толерантность учителей – Проект Southern Poverty Law Center: www.tolerance.org.

Развитие подростков и разнообразные виды обучения

Breaking Through to Teens: A New Psychotherapy for New Adolescence, by Ron Taffel. Guilford Press, 2005.

Childhood Unbound: Saving Our Kids’ Best Selves-Confident Parenting in a World of Change, by Ron Taffel. Free Press, 2009.

Delivered from Distraction: Getting the Most Out of Life with Attention Deficit Disorder, by Edward M. Hallowell and John J. Ratey. Ballantine Books, 2005.

Driven to Distraction: Recognizing and Coping with Attention Deficit Disorder from Childhood Through Adulthood, by Edward M. Hallowell and John J. Ratey. Touchstone, 1995.

It’s So Much Work to Be Your Friend: Helping the Child with learning Disabilities Find Social Success, by Richard Lavoie. Touchstone, 2006.

Key Indicators of Child Weil-Being: Completing the Picture, by Brett Brown, ed. Lawrence Erlbaum, 2007.

Killing Monsters: Why Children Need Fantasy Superheroes and Make-Believe Violence, by Gerald Jones. Basic Books, 2002.

The Primal Teen: What the New Discoveries About the Teenage Brain Tell Us About Our Kids, by Barbara Strauch. Doubleday, 2003.

Thinking in Pictures and Other Reports from My Life with Autism, by Temple Grandin. Vintage Books, 1996.

Understanding Learning: The How, the Why, the What, by Ruby K. Payne, aha! Process, Inc., 2001.

Understanding Youth: Adolescent Development for Educators, by Michael J. Nakkula and Eric Toshalis. Harvard Education Press, 2006.

What Do Childmi Need to Flourish? Conceptualizing and Measuring Indicators of Positive Development, by Kristin Anderson Moore and Laura Lippman, eds. Springer, 2005.

Working with Parents: Building Relationships for Student Success, by Ruby K. Payne, aha! Process, Inc., 2005.

Working with Students: Discipline Strategies for the Classroom, by Ruby K. Payne. aha! Process, Inc., 2006.

Аудиовизуальные материалы

The Motivation Breakthrough, by Richard Lavoie. Gerardinc Wurzburg (Director). PBS Video, 2007.

Мужественность, мужская агрессия и проблемы мальчиков

Bad Boys: Public Schools in the Making of Black Masculinity, by Ann Arnett Ferguson. University of Michigan Press, 2001.

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The Bond: Three Young Men Learn to Forgive and Reconnect with Their Fathers, by Sampson Davis, Rameck Hunt, and George Jenkins. Riverhead Hardcover,2007.

Boys into Men: Raising Our African American Teenage Sons, by Nancy Boyd Franklin, A.J. Franklin, and Pamela Touissaint. Dutton, 2000.

Boys of Few Words: Raising Our Sons to Communicate and Connect, by Adam J. Cox. Guilford Press, 2006.

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Аудиовизуальные материалы

Raising Cain: Exploring the Inner Lives of America’s Boys, by Michael Thompson and Powderhouse Productions. PBS Video, 2005.

Tough Guise: Violence, Media, and the Crisis in Masculinity (abridged). Sut Jhally (Director), featuring Jackson Katz. Media Education Foundation, 1999. (www.mediaed.org)

Wrestling with Manhood: Boys, Bullying, and Battering (abridged). Sut Jhally (Director, featuring Sut Jhally and Jackson Katz. Media Education Foundation, 2002. (www.mediaed.org)

Интернет-ресурсы

National Organization for Men Against Sexism: www.nomas.org XY – Men, Masculinities, and Gender Politics: www.xyonline.net.

Мир девочек, женская агрессия и проблемы девочек

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Girls in Real-Life Situations: Group Counseling for Enhancing Social and Emotional Development (Grades 6–12), by Julia V. Taylor and Shannon Trice-Black, Research Press, 2007. (Curriculum)

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Аудиовизуальные материалы

5 Girls. Maria Finitzo (Director). Kartemquin Educational Films, 2001. (www.kartemquin.com/films/5-girls) Mean Girls (Special Feature with Rosalind Wiseman, “The Politics of Girl World”). Mark Waters (Director). Paramount Pictures, 2004. Odd Girl Out. Tom McLoughlin (Director). Lifetime Television, 2005.

Онлайн-издевательства, медиа и технологии

Adolescents, Media, and the Law: What Developmental Science Reveals and Free Speech Requires, by Roger J.R. Levesque. Oxford University Press, 2007.

Can’t Stop Won’t Stop: A History of the Hip-Hop Generation, by Jeff Chang. St. Martin’s Press, 2005.

Cyber Bullying: Bullying in the Digital Age, by Robin M. Kowalski, Susan P. Limber, and Patricia W. Agatston. Wiley-Blackwell, 2007.

“Cyber Bullying: The Legal Challenge for Educators,” by Jill Joline Myers and Gayle Tronvig Carper. West’s Education Law Reporter, 2008, Vol. 238.

Cyber-Bullying: Issues and Solutions for the School, the Classroom and the Home, by Shaheen Shariff. Routledge, 2008.

Cyberbullying and Cyberthreats: Responding to the Challenge of Online Social Aggression, Threats, and Distress, by Nancy E. Willard. Research Press, 2007.

“Cyber-Libel and Cyber-Bullying: Can Schools Protect Student Reputations and Free-Expression in Virtual Environments?” by Shaheen Shariff and Leanne Johnny. Education and Law Journal, 2007, Vol. 16.

Cyber-Safe Kids, Cyher-Sawy Teens: Helping Young People Learn to Use the Internet Safely and Responsibly, by Nancy E. Willard. Jossey-Bass, 2007.

Encyclopedia of Children, Adolescents, and the Media (Vols. 1 & 2), by Jeffrey Jensen Arnett, ed. Sage Publications, 2007.

Generation MySpace: Helping Your Teen Survive Online Adolescence, by Candice M. Kelsey. Marlowe and Company, 2007.

“Grounding Cyberspeech: Public Schools’ Authority to Discipline Students for Internet Activity,” by Sarah O. Cronan. Kentucky Law Journal, 2008, Vol. 97.

Kids and Media in America, by Donald F. Roberts and Ulla G. Foehr. Cambridge University Press, 2004.

“MySpace and Its Relatives: The Cyberbullying Dilemma,” by Kathleen Conn and Kevin P. Brady. West’s Education Law Reporter, 2008, Vol. 226.

So Sexy So Soon, by Diane E. Levin and Jean Kilbourne. Ballantine Books, 2008.

Young People and New Media: Childhood and the Changing Media Environment, by Sonia Livingtone. Sage Publications, 2002.

Youth Media, by Bill Osgerby. Routledge, 2004.

Аудиовизуальные материалы

Consuming Kids: The Commercialization of Childhood, by Adriana Barbara and Jeremy Ear (Directors). Media Education Foundation, 2008. (www.mediaed.org)

Hip-Hop: Beyond Beats and Rhymes (abridged). Byron Hurt (Director). Media Education Foundation, 2006. (www.mediaed.org)

Killing Us Softly: Advertising’s Image of Women, by Jean Kilbourne. Sut Jhaily (Director). Media Education Foundation, 2006. (www.mediaed.org)

Интернет-ресурсы

Bully Police USA: www.bullypolice.org.

Center for Media Literacy: www.medialit.org.

Center for Safe and Responsible Internet Use: www.cyberbully.org.

Cyberbullying.us: www.cyberbullying.us.

Cyberlaw Enforcement Organization (CLEO): www.cyberlawenforcement.org.

Delete Cyberbullying (National Crime Prevention Council): www.ncpc.org/cyberbullying.

Free Technology for Teachers: www.freetech4teachers.com.

i-SAFE: www.isafe.org.

Just Think: www.justthink.org.

Media Awareness Network: www.media-awareness.ca/english/index.cfm.

NetSmartz Workshop (National Center for Missing and Exploited Children/Boysand Girls Clubs of America): www.netsmartz.org.

Stop Cyberbullying: www.stopcyberbullying.org.

WiredSafety: www.wiredsafety.org.

Расовая и этническая принадлежность

Adolescent Boys: Exploring Diverse Cultures of Boyhood, by Niobe Way and Judy Y. Chu, eds. New York University Press, 2004.

Affirming Diversity: The Sociopolitical Context of Multicultural Education, by Sonia Nieto and Patricia Bode. Allyn and Bacon, 2007.

All About Love: New Visions, by Bell Hooks. William Morrow, 2000.

Bridges Out of Poverty, by Philip DeVol, Terie Dreussi Smith, and Ruby K. Payne, aha! Process, Inc., 2006.

The Color of Success: Race and High-Achieving Urban Youth, by Gilberto Q. Conchas. Teachers College Press, 2006.

A Framework for Understanding Poverty, by Ruby K. Payne, aha! Process, Inc., 2005.

The Gendered Society Reader, by Michael Kimmel and Amy Aronson. Oxford University Press, 2000.

Good Kids from Bad Neighborhoods: Successful Development in Social Context, by Delbert S. Elliott, Scott Menard, Bruce Rankin, and Amanda Elliott. Cambridge University Press, 2007.